How Much Drama is in Your Life? - Robin Chodak

How Much Drama is in Your Life?


Are you around people whose lives are always filled with drama? Be honest. Are you one of those people? I’m not talking about dealing with current grief or tragedy. Those circumstances are usually unexpected and crisis is often present and can’t be avoided. That is not what I am referring to here. What I am talking about are people who live and thrive with drama constantly in their lives.

 They seem to need it. It’s as if they have made it their identity. They wouldn’t know what do without it in their daily lives.

Who Needs it?

Of course, a lot of drama can exist when you live with a house full of people. But, even those that live alone can create their own drama. It happens when they feel sorry for themselves, feel guilty or anxious. They create situations that cause drama! They are creating it in their minds.

Who lets drama become part of who they are? It’s anyone who has been conditioned to “make a mountain out of a molehill.” Every experience for them is filled with something that drags on and needs repeating. They love to tell their story over and over and talk about everyone else’s experiences as well. They thrive on gossip.

Could it be that they are so far out of touch with their own lives that they feel they must live theirs through other’s experiences? Or is it that they haven’t learned how to cope with their own emotions?  Is this you?

Eventually people get tired of drama. They get fed-up with it from others and from themselves.  It tends to happen when someone finally tells you that your drama is ruining the relationship.  Or you finally realize that you are not living consciously and not living in peace.

Sadly, it often takes tragedy or a major event in life that brings you to your knees. It’s during those times that you desire change or transformation.

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Don’t lose hope.

Once you become aware of drama in your life then you can begin to change.  All must learn to accept the things which  can not be controlled or changed. This was a necessary step in my recovery after the death of my former husband. I had to accept that he died by suicide and I wasn’t the one to blame. Mine is an extreme example but it was the catalyst to my transformation.  

On a smaller scale we must accept many minor adversities in life, such as missing a train or bus or missing a store-sale. These are not life threatening situations and don’t impact us in the long run. Yet often times we can make drama out of them.

Have you asked yourself lately whether you create too much drama in your life? If this is you then you can begin to change. Don’t wait for a tragedy to occur. Realize that drama is robbing you of your inner peace and the ability to live in the NOW.

Only you can begin the process of self-awareness. Once you do, then drama will no longer appeal to you and you will discover that you won’t want to be in the presence of others who constantly live with it in theirs.

If you feel stuck I will help guide you on your journey and you will discover that everything you need is already within you. You can learn to love your life. Start moving forward now. Click  HERE to schedule your FREE consultation with me!

Love and Light,

P.S.  I know some of you reading this have gone through your healing journey and feel that you are in a position to help others but don’t know where to start.  You are in the right place here at the Grief Healing LLC where you can be trained to become a certified grief healing coach.

Robin Chodak

Certified Life, Grief and Spiritual coach, Certified NLP Master Practitioner, Certified Reiki Practitioner,Mindfulness Meditation teacher

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I am a woman on a journey of recovery after the suicide of my husband in 2005. It has been a long voyage, but I was able to create a new identity and find happiness again after much hard work. I hope that I can help you along this path, too.

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